行動心理士やまひろが解説！3人兄弟姉妹の中間子の性格・特徴・恋愛
3人兄弟姉妹の真ん中に生まれた中間子。長男長女のように手厚く見守られることもなく、末っ子のように自由に甘やかされることもなく、どこか放置されて育つ傾向があります。
しかし、そんな環境だからこそ、中間子は自立心が早くから芽生え、周囲の些細な変化にも敏感になります。今回は、男女の組み合わせ別に中間子の性格や恋愛傾向を解説します。
【男・男・男】
親からの干渉を受けずに育つため、基本的には放っておいてほしいタイプ。女性に慣れておらず、男性と過ごすことが多いため、女性に対しては憧れと神秘性を感じています。恋愛では受け身で、女性からのアプローチを歓迎します。束縛や強要は苦手。
【女・男・男】
我慢強く努力家。姉にはパシリに使われ、弟にはわがままを言われ、精神的にタフに育ちます。弟が生まれる前は末っ子長男でもあるため、両方の気質を持つことも。大人になってからの対人関係は良好。恋愛では女性の気持ちを理解し配慮できるためモテます。
【男・女・男】
男性に囲まれて育つため、逞しくやんちゃな一面も持ちつつ、基本的には素直。裏表がなく、人の悪口も苦手。アクティブで行動的。決断力があり、仕事ができるタイプ。恋愛では素直に褒め言葉を受け取り、男性に頼るのも上手。甘え上手で、恋愛の幅も広いです。
【男・男・女】
頼りがいがあるのが特徴。兄の姿を見て慎重に行動し、妹の面倒を見てきたため男らしい性格に。抜け目がなく、仕事では高く評価され出世も早い。恋愛では頼られることを嫌いではなく、甘え上手な女性を好みます。
【女・女・男】
同性への敵対心がありつつも、協調性があり誰とでもコミュニケーション可能。姉へのひがみっぽさや、常に自分を後回しにしてきた経験から、束縛を嫌います。要領がよく、少し頑固な一面も。恋愛では年下男性に母性本能をくすぐられ、世話焼きな一面を発揮。
【女・女・女】
闘争心が強く負けず嫌い。女性の中で育ったため現実主義で、口達者。姉と妹の良いところを取り入れ、世渡り上手。組織では男性との関わりに悩むことも。恋愛では理想が高く、強い男性を好みます。慎重に相手を選び、危険な恋はしません。
中間子の恋愛傾向
- 趣味が同じになる: 好奇心旺盛で、恋人と同じ趣味にハマることも。負けず嫌いで、趣味を極めることも。
- 恋愛より仕事が優先: 現実的で、デートよりも仕事を優先する傾向。
- 恋愛経験が豊富: 熱しやすく冷めやすく、次の恋愛に進むのも早い。
- スピード婚もあり？: 結婚願望が強く、決断も早い。
- 駆け引きが上手: 相手の気持ちを察し、駆け引きが上手。
- 特別が大好物: 特別な存在として扱われることで優越感を得る。
- 相手に合わせる: 相手の意見を聞き、冷静に対応。
Middle Child Personality and Traits: An Insight from Behavioral Psychologist Yamahiro
Middle children, sandwiched between their siblings, often grow up feeling somewhat neglected, neither receiving the focused attention given to the firstborn nor the indulgent freedom granted to the youngest. However, this unique environment fosters independence and a keen sense of observation in them from an early age. Let’s delve into the personality and romantic tendencies of middle children based on their sibling gender combinations.
【Boy, Boy, Boy】
Growing up with minimal parental interference, these middle children prefer to be left alone. They are less familiar with females, often spending time with their brothers, and tend to view women with a mix of admiration and mystique. In relationships, they are passive and appreciate being approached by women. They dislike restrictions and being forced to do things.
【Girl, Boy, Boy】
These individuals are patient and hardworking. They often become the go-between for their demanding older sister and their self-centered younger brother, developing mental resilience. As they were the youngest before their brother was born, they might exhibit traits of both the youngest and the eldest child, depending on their parents’ approach. They excel in interpersonal relationships as adults. In romance, their understanding and consideration towards women make them popular.
【Boy, Girl, Boy】
Raised amidst brothers, these middle children are robust and playful yet fundamentally honest and gullible. They dislike dishonesty and gossip. They are active and decisive, making them capable in the workplace. In relationships, they readily accept compliments and are good at relying on men, making them popular. They are comfortable both giving and receiving affection, and their flexibility allows them to date people of various ages.
【Boy, Boy, Girl】
These middle children are known for their dependability. Observing their older brothers, they are cautious and avoid making mistakes. They also tend to take care of their younger sister, developing a masculine personality. Their prudence and perceptiveness lead to success and quick promotions at work. In romance, they are popular and enjoy being relied upon by women. They prefer partners who are good at expressing their needs.
【Girl, Girl, Boy】
While harboring some animosity towards their own gender, these middle children are generally cooperative and good at communicating with everyone. They may be envious of their older sister and often prioritize others’ needs over their own. They dislike being restricted and are resourceful, having witnessed their older sister being scolded. They can be a bit stubborn despite their adaptability. In relationships, they tend to be protective of younger men and enjoy taking care of them. They are drawn to slightly vulnerable men who need their support.
【Girl, Girl, Girl】
These middle children are competitive and hate losing. Growing up surrounded by women, they are realistic and outspoken, even towards adults. They learn from their older sister’s responsible behavior and their younger sister’s ability to act cute, making them socially adept. However, they might struggle with interacting with men in the workplace. In romance, they have high ideals and prefer strong, protective men. They are cautious in love and avoid risky relationships.
Middle Child’s Romantic Tendencies
- Shared hobbies: Their curiosity leads them to try and adopt their partner’s hobbies. Their competitive nature might even drive them to excel at these new interests.
- Work over love: They prioritize work, sometimes neglecting their partners.
- Rich in love experiences: They move on quickly from relationships that don’t benefit them.
- Potential for quick marriage: They desire a warm family and are decisive.
- Skilled at playing the game: They understand how to get the response they want from their partner.
- Love being special: They enjoy feeling valued and important in their partner’s life.
- Adaptable to their partner: They are observant and accommodating, often leaving their partners speechless with their well-reasoned arguments.